Tuesday, May 30, 2017

Thoughts on my First Born's 7th Birthday


OMG. Omggggg you guys. My first born turned 7-- SEVEN-- last week. My longterm, loyal [amazing] readers know I reflect every year on my son's birthday, ever since I started the blog, right before he turned 2. TWO!

You know how everyone loves to inform exhausted, overwhelmed new mothers that "it goes by so fast-- enjoy every second!"? And how that 'advice' is completely annoying most of the time because if you are home all day every day with babies, toddlers, and young children the days go by anything but fast? Don't worry, I'm not one of those people. I don't have the Motherhood Amnesia so characteristic of mothers-in-law and random grocery-store shoppers.


This photo courtesy of the Mother-Son date I took him on for Mother's Day.
I treasure our rare one-one-one times and need to make them happen more often!

I can now say that okay, yes, I see how (in a way) the years do go by fast. But not the days. Definitely not the days. I've had some doozies in my life as a mom, and I have earned each one of these 7 years (~2,555 days) as a Mom Veteran. I'm a fighter, baby! And I'm still standing.

Still, I've said it before and I'll say it again this year: What my son's birthday most poignantly reminds me of is that Motherhood has brought me the greatest challenges in my life, but it has also brought me the most joy in my life. I'm forever grateful for my son. I love the person he has always been and, maybe even more, the one he is becoming.

Here's to the next 7 years of Motherhood... the challenges, the joys, the heartache, the triumphs... ALL of it.

Much love from me to all of you who have been with me since the beginning, and also to newer visitors. It truly takes a village-- and I don't care if it's online!

~Julia @ Frantic Mama

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Thursday, May 11, 2017

Paperless Post Fun


Have you heard of Paperless Post? It's a handy site that helps you create beautiful online and printed stationery that reflects your style. The founders started the business to show that communication can be personal and well-designed regardless of the medium.

I love the idea because I'm pretty really bad about remembering to send snail mail cards...you know, the whole buy a card, find a stamp, put in the mail ordeal...and remembering to do all of it a couple of weeks ahead of the birthday/party/event. I end up feeling guilty all the time because I never get my act together to send cards on time!


You can send this adorable card via e-mail or snail mail through Paperless Post!

Enter Paperless Post: They have customizable designs and online tools that make it easy to communicate for any occasion-- from birthday invites to baby showers to Father's Day to fundraisers. You can send online cards and invites, yes, but here's my favorite part-- you can have Paperless Post send a printed card to your recipient directly from their site, with your own personalized message!

You simply provide the address and message (you can even upload a photo). Voila! No frantic runs to the store to pick out a card or rummaging through the house scavenging for stamps only for the card to arrive after the holiday/birthday/etc. Your loved one still receives your beautiful note via their mailbox. 

Here is a link to their cute birthday inviteshttps://www.paperlesspost.com/cards/group/birthday_invitations.The kids birthday options are especially cute, like this one:



LOVE it. 

The cost ranges from free for basic online cards to upwards of several dollars (you buy "coins" on the site to pay for their products) for a customized printed card or invite mailed for you (which includes postage).

How about you? Do you send printed or online invites and cards? Is snail mail a lost art? Have you embraced the ease of technology to communicate and celebrate?

~Julia @ Frantic Mama