I sometimes dream about living in a warmer climate which would enable me to play in the yard every day with my kids, take them for more walks, and go to parks more often. When it gets this cold, you really can't play outside much (at least, I don't, and my kids certainly don't enjoy it). Winter can feel isolating. Cabin fever sink in. The days start dark and end dark. Blah. Winter can be rough.
Why don't I just move? It's not much of an option, due to my husband's job, so I'm determined to find ways to enjoy being a SAHM to young children even here, where it can be colder than the North Pole (seriously).
So what are some activities you can do with toddlers and preschoolers without leaving your own home?
My favorite Cold Weather (Mostly Free) Survival Ideas:
Travel around the house. Perhaps this is obvious, but sometimes just initiating a change of scenery within our home helps stop any meltdowns/fights/tantrums. I might say, "let's all go to the basement!" or "have we been in the living room today?"
*Note: Our house is extremely kid-friendly. There are no fancy off-limits rooms, and this helps immeasurably when we are inside all day. I highly recommend abandoning your pre-kid sense of orderliness and cleanliness for everyone's sanity.
Facetime (or Skype). Is this lame? My sister and mom live in North Carolina, so Facetime is the only way we see each other on a regular basis. I can't tell you how often a quick Facetime chat with my sister and our kids is the highlight of my day.
Art Time. I don't put hours into preparing crafts for my kids, so don't worry, there's no high level skill involved here, but sometimes I like to announce, "it's art time!" and try to make it sound really exciting for us to run into the kitchen and create. I get out stamps, crayons, markers, whatever, really, and the kids have some creative time. Bonus: turn on some music. At times, this can be a magic combination in my house.
Embrace shows. I know, I feel guilty too if my kids have too much screen time, but sometimes a show for the kids is your only respite during a home-all-day period. Truth be told, one of my simple joys is when my kids are curled up next to each other watching something while I get a snack or meal together in the kitchen (separate but together downtime!).
Obstacle courses. If I can muster a tiny bit of energy, I might set up an "obstacle course" in our house where the kids have to race, climb, and jump around. I get out those foldable tunnels, throw pillows on the floor they have to circle around, and gather up balls they have to bounce. You get the idea. The 2 y.o. kind of just follows her older brother, but they always have fun with this.
Scavenger Hunts. I promise this is easier than it sounds, and my 4 y.o. loves it. I simply grab a marker and a piece of paper and jot down a list of things for my 4 y.o. to find or do around the house. He loves speeding through a good "mission," and he can read some of the simpler words (I was a reading teacher in my past life, so I'm all about exposing him to simple phonetic words!). Examples of items on the lists: Bring me a red car. Do 10 jumping jacks. Color a circle and a square.
Extra Credit for exiting the house in sub-zero temperatures: YMCA Programs. Starting at age 3, our local Y offers affordable, low-key, once-a-week sports options that suit my son and are close to our house. Once or twice a week, it is worth the effort of bundling everyone up and driving there so that he can run around and kick a ball with other kids (while my 2 year old drives me nuts running around the entire gym with me chasing after her. See? We all get some exercise.)
Now I'm tired just thinking about all of this, but I hope I've inspired you to find a little fun on a dreary, cold day. When all else fails, remember, there's nothing wrong with cracking open a cold one that evening. You deserve it.
Let's help each other out. What EASY activities have you employed to survive winter with little ones? Add them to the Comments!
~Julia @ Frantic Mama
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